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Romanticizing Rachel

First time mom trying to romanticize the mundane parts of life.

About Rachel

Hey there!

My name is Rachel and I’m a 28 year old mom, homeowner, and advocate for simple and slow living. My life’s and subsequently this blog’s pursuit is to romanticize the regular and find magic in life’s mundane moments. I believe seeking gratitude in simplicity is the true key to sustainable happiness!

Blog Categories

  • Mom Tips: I’m so in love with the transition from individual to mother and sharing the ways I attempted to make that transition a joyful one!
  • Hosting at Home: There are few things I love more than hosting at my home. Whether it’s dinner parties or holiday meals, I find so much joy in designing a gathering for friends and family.
  • Small Home Decor: Our lovely home is under 1,000 square feet and full of small corners and tight spaces! I can’t wait to share my small home decor tips.

In the year 2023, my life changed forever.

Within the span of 3 months, I bought my first house, moved in to said house, and I became a mom.

Though I would recommend to any woman to move during their third trimester (then you have an excuse to make everyone else do the heavy lifting), it came with numerous challenges.

The biggest of those challenges being, I now had to fix our fixer upper house while also caring for a newborn.

Many sleepless nights led me to parenting books, homeowner’s guides, and Google.

I learned so much valuable advice that I knew I needed to bring all that information to a consolidated home.

Facts About Me

  • My son, Archer, was born on 02/23/23 making him my perfect little Pisces baby.
  • I spent YEARS as a bartender and barista. I have a deep love for the service industry but especially espresso.
  • I’m a true theatre geek and studied musical theatre and dance in college. I still pursue performing in every city I go to!
  • My dream is to own a mountain home in Alaska!
  • I have lived all over the US from Washington, to Minnesota, to New York, to South Carolina, and now South Dakota. I’m not sure SD is the landing point, though, so who knows where we’ll go next!

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28 year old first time mom and first time homeowner in South Dakota sharing rustic home decor, hosting at home, and first time momma life.

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Amazon links have become so common that we don’t Amazon links have become so common that we don’t even think twice about using them, but should we? 

I used to shop from Amazon WEEKLY. Picking up little things here and there to follow trends or utilizing the ease of fast delivery to my door. 

But I never felt great about it knowing that there were small businesses out there that needed my money more. I just never knew where to find them. 

That’s why I wanted to create this platform! To make shopping small and secondhand feel easy and sexy again. 

If you’re not convinced yet, here are my top 3 reasons to stop shopping Amazon:
1. Sustainability- In 2019, Amazon’s carbon emissions (ONE company) surpassed that of the entire country of Norway. And it’s only grown since (like by A LOT).
2. Unfair Pay for Workers- Though they’re a multi-billion dollar corporation, most employees aren’t making enough to support their families.
3. THERE ARE NO ETHICAL BILLIONAIRES- I don’t want Jeff Bezos getting a penny from me 🥰

I also feel strongly that delivery services are the greatest contributor to the loneliness epidemic we’re experiencing today. We belong in public spaces, interacting with other humans at thrift stores and brick and mortar shops. 

If any of this resonates with you, give @romanticizingrach a follow so together we can find the best small business alternatives and hold each other accountable to shopping secondhand 🫶🏻

#vintagehomedecor #smallhomeideas #smallhomedecor #shopsmall #shopsecondhand thrifthauls thriftedhome budgetfriendlyhomedecor amazonfinds beautifulhomes oldhomes makeadifference
Style content always feels so vulnerable to me 🙈

But the @ralphlauren men’s line got me so inspired to recreate the looks 😮‍💨

Have you guys seen the show? Are you as obsessed as I am? 

#ralphlauren #poloralphlauren #rrl #westernfashion #americanstyle
Have to give my parents credit for this as well be Have to give my parents credit for this as well because even though I know now we were struggling, they never made it our problem as children. 

Having less forced us to be outside more, be home more, spend more time together, and get through the hard times as a unit. It taught me to sacrifice and to be resilient, and I want my child to learn those same lessons in life.

Now obviously I’m not talking about the kind of poverty that leaves children hungry and uncared for, but most families live in the gray area between poverty and a comfortable middle class.

Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re a bad parent if you’re in that gray area and living paycheck to paycheck. If your kids needs are met and you are loving them as hard as you can, then you’re doing more than enough to set them up for a life of happiness. 

Do you agree with this take or am I totally off base???

#toddlermom #relatablemom #parenting #simpleliving #intentionalliving
Spring will be here soon 🫶🏻 #simpleliving # Spring will be here soon 🫶🏻

#simpleliving #hopecore #slowlife #countryhome #simpleliving
Trying to show yall more of my actual creative pro Trying to show yall more of my actual creative process in our home!! 

As you can see, it includes a lot of time and a lot of doubt, but it’s always so fun for me 🥹

Do you guys like this style of interior design as much as I do??

#vintagehomedecor #countryhome #dougbihlmaier #americanadecor #westerndecor
Feeling like we need more unedited photos and life Feeling like we need more unedited photos and life moments in 2026. 

It’s my goal to be more vulnerable, less curated, and more community focused with y’all this year. 

Too much is going on to pretend I look like this every day !!!

#simplelife #slowliving #intentionalliving #realmoments #unedited
If you’ve never tried making art together with a If you’ve never tried making art together with all your friends, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT 😭😭🥹🥹

It is so challenging to hold on to the passions that bring you joy after becoming a mom. I’m so grateful to have the opportunity to do things like this and be given grace and acceptance to bring my son with me everywhere I go.

In the darkness, we have to look for the light. Connect with your community, make some imperfect art, sing some songs that make you happy, and come back stronger with renewed hope.

There will be light 🫶🏻

#momvlog #ditl #momvlogger #grwm #relatablemom
#cleaningvlog #cleanwithme #countryhome #cottageco #cleaningvlog #cleanwithme #countryhome #cottagecoreaesthetic #momlife

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